Good marriages between happy couples are not largely prevalent in fiction. Sure, it's there in the background somewhere as the main character's parents or friend's relationships, but not often seen as the primary focus of a book. Fiction needs conflict so that it can make its way towards resolution. A book with no conflict, where characters are always happy, never having problems, is boring.

Bringing this back to realism in relationships (where I always tend to go), occasionally we see a real marriage. One in which the characters truly love each other, but still fight. Married couples fight. Anyone who tells you different is single, lying or still a newlywed. Being happily married does not make a couple automatically agree on everything. Disagreements about money, raising kids, or even whose responsibility it is to do the dishes arise. These issues can spiral out of control if not dealt with causing huge fights. It happens in life, but where is it in fiction?
What are some of your favorite books that focus on happy, unhappy and realistic marriages? Which type do you prefer reading?
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